ADHD reWired

This week, Eric is joined by Dr. Ryan Sultan, a mental health physician, therapist and researcher at Columbia University.  ADHD is a major area of Dr. Sultan’s expertise both in his medical practice and in research.  

In this episode, you’ll hear Eric and Dr. Ryan discuss why it’s important to treat ADHD, the nuances of research, his reasons for getting into the ADHD space, and whether or not ADHD is underdiagnosed or overdiagnosed. 

Find out more about Dr. Ryan Sultan at https://www.integrativepsych.nyc/experts/dr-ryan-sultan

& Find more available psychiatrists and other professionals for adult ADHD in the New York and New York City area at https://www.integrativepsych.nyc/resources/adult-adhd-psychiatrists-in-nyc

Other Questions/Topics Answered in this Episode:

  • [00:01:17] What drove Dr. Ryan to become interested in the ADHD space? 
  • [00:03:14] How does Dr. Ryan respond to other medical professionals who say ADHD is overdiagnosed or doesn’t believe ADHD is real? 
  • [00:05:00] Eric and Dr. Ryan talk about the missing statistics of girls and women being diagnosed with ADHD.  
  • [00:06:10] What happens when we don’t treat ADHD? 
  • [00:07:40] What does it mean to treat ADHD, and what treatment is most effective?
  • [00:11:31] A discussion on Eric and Dr. Ryan’s experience with ADHD medication.  
  • [00:13:55] What does research say about addiction and ADHD medication? 
  • [00:22:12] Dr. Ryan talks about coming out about his ADHD, his journey with his diagnosis, self-esteem, academics, and healing.
  • [00:25:29] How did Dr. Ryan get through med school? 
  • [00:27:30] A conversation about the nuances of research, headlines, and TikTok.  
  • [00:36:05] What is Dr. Ryan studying now?  
  • [00:37:55] Have there been any changes in the diagnostic picture with regards to who is seeking an ADHD evaluation and treatment? 
  • [00:40:15] Eric and Dr. Ryan share their observations about ADHD and autism. 
  • [00:43:25] Eric has an ADHD moment, then Dr. Ryan asks about tele-health. 
  • [00:46:37] Dr. Ryan shares some final thoughts.

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Direct download: 461_-_Why_Treat_ADHD_with_Ryan_Sultan_MD.mp3
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This week, Eric is joined by Brittany Berger, the founder of WorkBrighter.co, a digital media company and community that helps disabled, chronically-ill, mentally-ill, and neurodivergent creatives better balance between work, play, and rest, so they can burnout less.

She started Work Brighter after 5 years working at a high-stress startup that prioritized hustle, growth, and scaling over health.  As a “multiply-disabled” human, her body eventually had enough of the constant burnout cycle.  Now that Brittany has escaped hustle culture, she spends her time helping others like her to find balance for themselves, advocating for disability justice, and dancing - always dancing! 

Find out more at https://workbrighter.co or at Brittany’s Instagram @workbrighter

Other Questions/Topics Answered in this Episode:

  • [00:02:18] Eric and Brittany talk about workaholism, overachieving, and burning out. 
  • [00:05:11] Brittany shares her inner dialogue after making the decision to create the life she wanted to transition towards. 
  • [00:06:29] Accepting being not a part of hustle culture. 
  • [00:07:56] Brittany talks about the “why” behind starting WorkBrighter. 
  • [00:10:30] Eric and Brittany talk about exploring autism. 
  • [00:21:38] What is Spoon Theory? 
  • [00:23:54] A discussion on time and energy management. 
  • [00:24:51] “Eat that frog!” 
  • [00:28:27] A conversation about deep work
  • [00:31:10] The importance of thinking of our time as being flexible.  
  • [00:37:47] How did Brittany start to change her life to better suit her needs? 
  • [00:40:59] Brittany shares more strategies she’s put into place to let her Work Brighter.
  • [00:42:14] A discussion on managing email and batching tasks. 
  • [00:49:39] Brittany gives a closing thought.

Resources & Honorable Mentions:

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Direct download: 460_-_Hustle_Culture_and_Toxic_Productivity_with_Brittany_Berger.mp3
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Questions & Topics in this Episode:

  • [00:02:12] How have you learned how to accept your ADHD? 
  • [00:11:56] How do you keep yourself from comparing your progress and productivity with that of your neurotypical colleagues, especially those who are high-achieving? 
  • [00:26:54] I’m considering going back to college part-time and I’m having a hard time not getting freaked out about papers and exams. I just need to know how to figure out how to do it differently from my last two failed attempts. 
  • [00:34:09] How do you protect your sleep? 
  • [00:42:30] I would like some suggestions on how we manage expectations for those who don’t understand us [as people with ADHD].  What would you say to somebody who has no idea what ADHD is about? 
  • [00:55:13] A listener asks about managing PMDD and having ADHD. 
  • [00:59:14] Any tips on things to look for or do first before finding an insurance provider? 

Resources & Honorable Mentions:

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This week, Eric is joined by Rahti Gorfien of Creative Calling Coaching!  Rahti has coached independent creative professionals, including actors, writers, artists, filmmakers, and tech developers, who are scattered and overwhelmed.  She helps her clients break the cycle of isolation, irregular income, and irregular hours, by taking a more structured and entrepreneurial approach to their careers based on their unique strengths and neurological makeup. 

In this episode, you’ll hear about Rahti’s journey with mental health, the impact of teams in her life, and how she started a yoga practice and her interest in cooking.  You’ll also hear about trauma, the 5 success-stopping emotions, being confronted by meaning-making, and wise closing words from Rahti. 

Find out more about Rahti at https://creativecallingcoaching.com/

Other Questions/Topics Answered in this Episode:

  • [00:02:04] Rahti talks about how she knew she had to be a performer. 
  • [00:07:26] Rahti shares how her journey into coaching started. “Company is stronger than will, and I realized I was trying to do it alone.”
  • [00:11:03] Eric and Rahti dive into bipolar and mental health.
  • [00:19:13] The 5 core emotions. “Emotions are the harbingers of what we think, of what we believe.” -Rahti 
  • [00:22:50] Rahti shares why she is now grateful for her trauma.  
  • [00:23:57] The Manifesto of the Brave and Brokenhearted - Brene Brown 
  • [00:27:43] Rahti gives a different perspective about being the hero in our lives. 
  • [00:29:21] “Emotions are also wise, and they are also convincing liars.” -Eric 
  • [00:32:29] Where does envy come from in terms of the 5 emotions? 
  • [00:35:41] Thoughts on Enoughness
  • [00:43:42] Eric and Rahti share their experiences with boredom. 
  • [00:45:51] Is boredom the birthplace of creativity? 
  • [00:49:41] Rahti and Eric recap the 5 success-stopping emotions and talk about fear. 
  • [00:57:30] Rahti shares about her book, coming in summer of 2023! 

Resources & Honorable Mentions:

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Direct download: 458_-_5_Success-Stopping_Emotions_with_Rahti_Gorfien.mp3
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This week, Eric is joined by Chris Wang, the cofounder and CEO of Shimmer, an ADHD startup offering bite-sized coaching to individuals with ADHD!  Chris is an entrepreneur, social-impact advocate, angel investor, growth consultant, and forever tinkerer.  She believes strongly that business should be used as a force for good, and that positive impact not only isn’t the enemy of profit, but is a catalyst. 

This thesis underpins every decision she makes, especially when it comes to the communities she is a part of and cares the most about, the communities including LGBTQ+, AAPI (Asian-American Pacific Islander), women, non-binary, and neurodiversity - especially with ADHD. 

Find out more about Shimmer at https://www.shimmer.care 

Other Questions/Topics Answered in this Episode:

  • [00:02:26] Chris talks about getting prepared for the show
  • [00:03:20] Eric asks Chris about her story launching Shimmer 
  • [00:04:12] Chris shares her experience as a kid and where the messages of “being a kid” came from
  • [00:07:19] Eric asks Chris about a “failure” from a previous business venture 
  • [00:08:18] “I have the learning, it’s on a sticky note!” -Chris 
  • [00:10:14] Where did Chris learn all of the skills she has now that’s led to personal growth and building a business? 
  • [00:11:33] Eric pokes Chris’s brain: “How did you figure out what you needed to figure out?” 
  • [00:15:09] Chris shares her journey with feedback and how it’s been used to improve Shimmer
  • [00:23:14] Chris walks us through different types of feedback sessions, inspired by https://thefoundercoach.com 
  • [00:26:53] What kind of person does it take to engage in vulnerable and courageous conversation? 
  • [00:28:36] Chris shares an example of the language used when engaging in a feedback session 
  • [00:33:28] “Sometimes feedback stings.” Chris talks about dealing with the sting of feedback. 
  • [00:37:50] How do you get back up from negative or critical feedback? 
  • [00:42:51] Chris shares more about what Shimmer is all about 
  • [00:50:23] What is Chris most excited about with Shimmer? 
  • [00:54:49] “What are you nerding-out about lately” and the importance of having something fun to do outside of business 
  • [00:59:58] Chris gives listeners her final thoughts

Resources & Honorable Mentions:

  • Tool: Notion (also an editor’s favorite!)

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Direct download: 457_-_Whats_Your_Relationship_with_Feedback_with_Chris_Wang.mp3
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This week, Eric is joined by Dr. Diana Mercado-Marmarosh, also known as Dr. D, a family-medicine physician, clinic medical director, and chief medical officer.  Dr. D is also the founder of OverAchieve Life Coaching.  Prior to discovering coaching, Diana typically had 200 charts open and a “graveyard” of unfinished projects.  

Now, she’s on a mission to empower healthcare professionals to create simple systems that support their zone-of-genius and reclaim their freedom of time as her clients learn to leave work at work.  She is happily married with two children and enjoys travel, painting, Zumba, yoga nidra meditation, and exploring different cultures! 

In this episode, you’ll hear Eric and Dr. Diana talk about her struggles through medical school, the pressures she experienced, and what led to her ADHD diagnosis.  Then, you’ll hear discussions on the importance of self-care, how we can advocate for ourselves and how we communicate, and putting ourselves first.  

Find more from Dr. Diana Mercado-Marmarosh at https://www.adhd-lifecoach.com 

Other Questions/Topics Answered in this Episode:

  • [00:03:59] “You need to stop putting your clients and patients first!”  What does Dr. Diana mean? 
  • [00:05:14]  Dr. Diana talks about living in self-neglect.
  • [00:09:00]  Eric and Dr. Diana discuss the statistics of life-expectancy for those of us with ADHD. 
  • [00:10:08]  Dr. Diana shares her ADHD story. 
  • [00:11:59]  How did Dr. Diana get through medical school before her ADHD diagnosis? 
  • [00:14:37]  Dr. Diana shares the catalyst that led to her diagnosis and how her cultural background and upbringing implanted the ideas to “just work hard” and “do whatever it takes.” 
  • [00:22:16]  Dr. Diana shares more about the pressure of being the first person in her family to pursue further education. 
  • [00:23.29]  How does Dr. Diana set up her environment for the most success?  What has coaching taught her? 
  • [00:26.19]  How does Dr. Diana communicate with her patients? 
  • [00:28:12]  Eric and Dr. Diana discuss their thoughts about ADHD as a gift. 
  • [00:31:50]  Eric and Dr. Diana talk about boundaries and how she has conversations around her own boundaries.  
  • [00:35:36]  “Boundaries from a place of love and a place of compassion.” 
  • [00:39:35] “How do we leave work at work?”
  • [00:45:12] What does Dr. Diana recommend patients say to their doctors if they encounter a physician that doesn’t believe in ADHD, believes that ADHD is something that is ‘grown-out-of’, etc.? 
  • [00:48:31] Dr. Diana shares her definition of success and shares some words of wisdom for listeners.

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This week, Eric is joined by Robyn Buchanan, a mom of two teenage boys and partner to an ADHD husband.  Robyn is also a registered nurse, life and focus coach, and YouTube creator who is an advocate for people with ADHD and neurodiversity to capitalize on their ADHD strengths and push the mundane aside to live their best lives.  She encourages minimalism and self-employment for maximum freedom and joy, is a self-admitted tea-addict, loves gardening, walking with friends around her Vancouver island town, and watching Jane Austen movies. 

You’ll hear Eric and Robyn talk about decluttering, how we can add “glitter” to make decluttering fun, and how important our spaces and environments are for getting things done.  

Eric and Robyn also discuss how decluttering our own spaces has potential to bring others joy, different ways we can use the concept of minimalism to keep our spaces clean and decluttered, what prompted Eric to hire a professional organizer, what sparked Robyn’s interest into getting her home organized, and more!  

Get in touch with Robyn:

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Other Questions/Topics Answered in this Episode:

  • [00:03:54] Eric admits he “has crap everywhere” and asks Robyn, “Where do we start?” when we want to begin decluttering. 
  • [00:06:29] How do we make decluttering fun? 
  • [00:10:10] Robyn shares how and why she schedules her anti-procrastination tasks. 
  • [00:11:20] What sparked Robyn’s interest to get into organizing? 
  • [00:15:38] How does Robyn define minimalism for her? 
  • [00:23:29] Robyn takes us into the thinking realm of organizing:  What are the questions, leading thoughts, ideas, and the cognition piece behind this to help us make better decisions?
  • [00:29:19] “You mean we have to work to keep our home decluttered?” and a discussion about maintenance.
  • [00:37:16] How do we deal with family giving us things (memorabilia, furniture, etc.) that could lead to more clutter? 
  • [00:42:10] How do we deal with our mail? 
  • [00:47:10] What are some of the tools or the things that make keeping ourselves organized easier?
  • [00:50:46] Why does it take up to two weeks to put laundry away? 

Resources & Honorable Mentions:

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Direct download: 455_-_Is_Minimalism_Realistic_with_ADHD_with_Robyn_Buchanan.mp3
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Questions & Topics in this Episode:

  • [00:04:58] “What are your tips for taking yourself out of hyperfocus?”
  • [00:08:24] Tips on managing overwhelm, to-do lists, and cues for coming back to our lists 
  • [0019:09] A listener who was recently diagnosed asks about impulsivity and food in a work environment. 
  • [00:27:14] “How do you help someone who definitely needs help and support, but isn’t ready, doesn’t want it, or feels that they don’t need it, but at the same time, they’re constantly feeling overwhelmed and can’t manage?”
  • [00:36:31] Will Curb gives an update from last month’s episode and talks about making trying different foods fun for kids.
  • [0038:04] Ideas for incorporating exercise and body movement.
  • [00:43:29] Suggestions for managing impulsive behaviors, setting boundaries when making plans with other people, and online shopping. 

Resources & Honorable Mentions:


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Direct download: 454_-_October_Live_QA_2022.mp3
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This week, Eric is joined by Marie Ng, the solo-founder of Llama Life!  Marie has worn many hats, including experience in advertising, working in corporate environments, teaching herself how to code, and startups.  

In this episode, you’ll hear about Marie’s experiences in the corporate world, how she found out about her own ADHD, what it was like working in an open space sitting across from her boss, and her entrepreneurial spirit.  Eric and Marie also cover topics like failure, resilience, and the importance of finding what you love. 

Check out Marie’s productivity tool, Llama Life at https://llamalife.co Llama life doesn’t just help you create your to-do lists, it helps you work through your list and helps manage your attention that  keeps you engaged by making it fun! 

Get in touch with Marie on Twitter: @threehourcoffee 


Other Questions/Topics Answered in this Episode:

  • [00:02:38]  When did Marie’s ADHD journey begin? 
  • [00:10:37]  Did Marie ever think she would be working for herself? 
  • [00:13:16]  What is Llama Life all about? 
  • [00:14:04]  How does Llama life help you work through your lists? 
  • [00:15:36]  Thoughts on countdown timers & a feature-request
  • [00:21:19]  Are there any lessons Marie can share about transitioning from working a corporate job to being self-employed? 
  • [00:28:37]  Marie shares the ups and downs of her startups and shares thoughts about failure and bouncing back
  • [00:31:49]  “What’s the alternative? What’s the other choice?” Why did this resonate with Marie? 
  • [00:41:36]  What are some big lessons that can be applied to designing a life that is more ADHD friendly? 
  • [00:51:20]  Setting up for “failure” vs. setting up for learning
  • [00:54:36]  Eric asks Marie about perfectionism

Resources & Honorable Mentions:


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Direct download: 453_-_Find_what_Works_for_You_with_Marie_Ng.mp3
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Returning to the podcast is David Greenwood, the author of Overcoming Burnout: Real Life Strategies for Burnout, Recovery, and Prevention.  He is also the author of Overcoming Distraction: Thriving with Adult ADHD and hosts the ADHD podcast called “Overcoming Distractions.”


Learn more about David Greenwood at https://overcomingdistractions.com
Find his books Overcoming Burnout and Overcoming Distraction at https://overcomingburnout.net 


Questions/Topics Answered in this Episode:

  • [00:05:44] What made David want to write about burnout?
  • [00:07:45] What is burnout?  What are the symptoms/basic signs of burnout? 
  • [00:09:26] What is the line distinguishing between depression and burnout? 
  • [00:10:45] Alleviating stress is not the same thing as alleviating the stressor. What’s the difference?
  • [00:13:40] “Burnout recovery starts with the body.” 
  • [00:20:28] How do we know if we’re in a period of stress vs. actual burnout that needs to be addressed? 
  • [00:24:04] What else can we do, other than exercise, to help with burnout?
  • [00:36:17] Recap of the 6 things to do when you begin to recognize you’re headed to burnout.
  • [00:37:48] Another way to help with burnout is… 
  • [00:40:03] How do drugs/alcohol affect burnout?  

6 things to do when you begin to recognize you’re headed to burnout:

  • Talk with someone you trust. 
  • Hit the gym / do something physical & exercise   
  • Sit still.  Try for 30 minutes to start.  
  • Book a weekend away. 
  • Manage your time. 
  • Test your “no” and say no to at least one thing. 

Resources & Honorable Mentions:


Bonus Mentions:


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Direct download: 452_-_Overcoming_Burnout_with_David_Greenwood.mp3
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Eric is joined by Mike Lekies, who has been a business coach and sales trainer for 15 years and runs a business together with his non-ADHD but not-neurotypical wife.  He has 25 years of experience in sales and was diagnosed with ADHD at age 43, which turned his life upside down.  Mike is also an Alumni of ADHD reWired’s Coaching and Accountability groups!  If you want to find out how to structure your business around your ADHD, then this episode you’ve been looking for! 

You’ll hear more conversations about Mike’s experiences in business and the lessons he learned with his business ventures.  Then, you’ll also hear about business and marriage, and what led Mike to getting diagnosed with ADHD, how it affected his identity, and some of the perks he’s enjoyed being the owner of his own business. 

Learn more at https://www.successfuladhdentrepreneur.com  

Get in touch with Mike on:


Other Questions/Topics Answered in this Episode:

  • How can you bend your own business to your ADHD? 
  • How do we build systms that work for us that scaffold the challenges we have? 
  • What three numbers do I need to track to determine if my business is moving forward? 
  • How do I interpret the data I track? 
  • Questions Mike asks about his own business:
    • How many leads do I generate?
    • Is it (my leads) critical? 
    • Will my business survive this critical number of leads? 
    • Is it “ok” or is it more than I need? 
  • What’s the difference between revenue and sales? 
  • What is the importance of having well-qualified leads? 
  • What is a qualified lead? 
  • How can I add automation into my business? 
  • What can I automate in my business? 

Resources & Honorable Mentions:


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Direct download: 451_-_Bending_your_Business_to_Your_ADHD_with_Mike_Lekies.mp3
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Questions & Topics in this Episode:

  • [00:03:48] Advice on medication routines and the process of finding a physician to help
  • [00:08:52] Where to look and how to look for contractors to help with house renovations & overcoming analysis-paralysis and making a decision 
  • [00:22:31] Tips to manage twitchy legs during movies, car-rides, and sleeping; and managing TMJ and teeth-grinding
  • [00:22:31] What is the impact of low estrogen on post-menopausal women?  Does taking estrogen supplements assist with cognitive functioning? 
  • [00:28:35] A discussion about a professor disclosing/sharing their ADHD diagnosis with students and colleagues 
  • [00:36:17] “Are there any apps that you would recommend to help with time management and motivation?  Or, would you say apps for ADHD are overrated?”
  • [00:43:46] Motivation, moving forward, and self-care when feeling emotionally held back
  • How to address getting into feeding/eating routines that 
  • [00:52:47] Eating routines and “safe foods” for kids - how do I get my kids to eat a wider variety of foods? 
  • [00:58:45] Crickets and a Moment of Dad 

Resources & Honorable Mentions:


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In this episode, Eric is joined by Skye Rapson from New Zealand!  Skye is a mom and an academic with over 7 years experience working in adult education.  She has studied in various fields, including psychology, sociology, and public health, and is now a doctoral candidate in population health.  

After getting diagnosed with ADHD at the start of her doctorate, she has since dedicated time to researching and disseminating ADHD studies, focusing on supporting others with strength-based neurodiverse-friendly tools and systems. 

Skye also founded Unconventional Organization which provides strength-based research-backed online coaching for clients with ADHD. 

Learn more at https://www.unconventionalorganisation.com
Instagram: Skye - ADHD Coach & Researcher (@unconventionalorganisation)


Topics/Questions in this Episode:

  • What is the aversion to “structure” when you have ADHD? 
  • What is the most important ingredient in the “recipe” for ADHD management? 
  • How does self-criticism impact our ability to get things done? 
  • What helps us to acknowledge and identify our self-criticism? 
  • How do we adjust our sense of what we’re working on? 
  • Skye runs an organization with neurodiverse people for neurodiverse people.  What is the most fun about it, and what are the challenges? 
  • What are some of the alternative tools (other than email) that can be used to navigate with a neurodiverse team? 
  • “Bring your worst self to coaching” - Why is this important? 
  • What is the difference between motivation and activation? 
  • “Being an adult means you need a lot of dopamine.  Sprinkle dopamine everywhere in your life! It’s not just about the work.” - Skye Rapson
  • What does “dopamine-down” mean? 
  • Mind-ready and brain-ready: What’s the difference? 
  • How can we alleviate self-doubt when setting goals? 

Resources & Honorable Mentions:


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Direct download: 449_-_Getting_Tasks_Done_with_Skye_Rapson.mp3
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In this episode, Laura Key from Understood.org joins the show!  Laura is a mom of two kids, a long-time editor and content-creator, hosts the ADHD Aha! podcast, and is the editorial director at Understood.org!

Understood.org is a resource for people with learning and thinking differences like ADHD and dyslexia, where Laura also co-leads the Understood podcast network!   

Join in as Laura and Eric share their stories about keeping up with deadlines, anxiety, mental flexibility, and perfectionism. 

You’ll also hear about Laura’s roles with Understood.org, her experience as a mom and the ways her ADHD can shine, and how the ADHD Aha! podcast was born.  

Resources & Honorable Mentions:


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Direct download: 448_-_Anxiety_and_ADHD_Aha_with_Laura_Key_from_Understood.mp3
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In this episode, Eric is joined by Camille Roney, who is a certified academic life coach, whose work has appeared in the New York Journal, Quizlet, Motivate MD, and more!  Camille empowers students to start earning high grades while studying less and enjoying the process. 

You’ll hear Camille and Eric talk about the importance of curiosity and experimentation, why having different ways of absorbing information can depend on the content we are trying to absorb, the art of being bored, and using our calendars to reflect our values. 

Next, Eric and Camille discuss the benefits of allowing our minds to wander, strategies to be attentive to what we are reading, questions to prompt our curiosity, giving ourselves space, the next steps someone can take when they’re ready to self-advocate, and addressing our internal dialogue when we’re questioning our paths.  

Finally, you’ll hear what not to do when writing a paper, trauma, burnout, self-appreciation, getting to the “why” behind the paths we choose, how the cost of education has changed, and why it’s ok to pause and enjoy the experience.


Connect with Camille: 


Other Questions & Topics in this Episode:

  • What prompted Camille to go down the path as an academic life coach? 
  • How does Camille help people to discover how they learn? 
  • What is value-based time-blocking? 
  • What is the value of learning how to be bored? 
  • How can you stay attentive while reading? 
  • How does Camille help someone determine if they’re down the “wrong” educational path or if they need to develop study skills? 
  • What does Camille do to help students with writing?
  • When someone is pursuing a highly competitive field, how does Camille work with them? 

Resources & Honorable Mentions:


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Direct download: 447_-_ADHD_Academa_and_How_We_Learn_with_Camille_Roney.mp3
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Join ADHD reWired's award winning, online, video-based Coaching & Accountability Groups at https://coachingrewired.com.

This is your last chance to join our fall season of ADHD reWired's Coaching & Accountability Groups - also known as ARC - beginning on September 29th and 30th, through to December 8th and 9th of 2022.  Our final registration event for our fall season is on Tuesday, September 20th at 12pm Pacific / 3pm Eastern.  

Go to https://coachingrewired.com to get your name added to our coaching group interest list and join the coaching community built for adults with ADHD by adults with ADHD! You can do hard things, and you don't have to do them alone! 

Direct download: TS447.mp3
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Join the ADHD reWired Team every second Tuesday of the month for our monthly Live Q&A!  

You’ll hear strategies for communicating the challenges of ADHD to partners and families, ways to discuss invisible disabilities and other mental health challenges with others, resources for folks who don’t have access to healthcare, and three assumptions that can help reframe how we are in our relationships.

Then, you’ll hear techniques about learning and retaining information, ways that parents can help an adult child who is transitioning from graduating college to moving out into the world, and the importance of encouragement.  The panelists also talk about imposter syndrome, compassionate ass-kicking, that failure is not terminal, and how to support someone to get started on something tough. 

Finally, you will hear the gold standard of diagnoses, comorbidities, and the importance of not getting wrapped up in a diagnosis.


Some of the Questions & Topics in this Episode:

  • How do I help my spouse learn about ADHD?  He is skeptical of the condition. 
  • Could ADHD coaching be helpful for couples where one person has ADHD, and the other is neurotypical? 
  • In the scenario where you come from a background where the concept of mental illness or ADHD is not necessarily “accepted”, how do you explain the guardrails or things that may be helpful for a child with ADHD to those who think, “Everyone is a little bit ADHD”? 
  • People I know don’t have access to healthcare, medical support, or therapy.  But, I don’t know what to tell them when they’re struggling and don’t have access to the above.  Do you have any advice? 
  • What can I do to manage my ADHD symptoms when I don’t have access to healthcare? 
  • Do you have any tips, tricks, tools or techniques so I can actually retain information so that I’m learning it? It’s already stuff I know, but I feel like I am just reviewing stuff and I don’t actually get anywhere.
  • As a mother of a recent college graduate who does not want to treat his ADHD, he doesn’t want help from us and is overwhelmed about his future, and it’s hard to sit back and not do anything for him.  
  • I have been treated for ADHD since I found out 20 years ago, but now, neuro health says I have no ADHD and “1000% aspergers.”  I am confused and immobilized. 

Resources & Honorable Mentions:


Bonus: 

Last month, a listener asked if there were grants available to cover potential business expenses, specifically for ADHD.  Here are some resources they shared (Thank you Lili!)


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Direct download: 446_-_August_Live_QA.mp3
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In this episode, Eric is joined by Allison Lieberman, a licensed marriage and family therapist, is certified in postpartum mental health, and is a new-mom coach!  She is the host of The New Mama Mentor Pod and helps new moms find peace and balance in their chaotic lives.

You’ll hear Allison share when she was diagnosed with ADHD, how her diagnosis impacted her practice and her life as a mom, how she struggled with postpartum anxiety after having her first child, the dangers of glorifying worrying as a parent, the personal narratives that arise as a parent, and Allison’s mission to bring light to postpartum anxiety.  

Then, Eric and Allison dive into the work she does to educate new moms, the things that Allison has been learning with postpartum in the realm of ADHD, her experience with overstimulation and sensory processing, and the effects of stress, and differentiating between trauma and ADHD. 

Finally, you’ll hear why Allison started her podcast, medical gaslighting, and how journaling can help through the process. 

Connect with Allison: 


Other Questions & Topics in this Episode:

  • What is the difference between postpartum depression and postpartum anxiety? What about the similarities? 
  • Is postpartum anxiety a part of the DSM? 
  • What is postpartum mental health? 
  • ADHD medication during pregnancy: Yes or no? 
  • What is a reproductive psychiatrist? 
  • If someone is thinking about getting pregnant, what are some of the things they can go to their doctors with when it comes to medication? 
  • How does Allison differentiate between symptoms of trauma vs. ADHD for new moms? 
  • What has Allison found to be most helpful for clients who have ADHD during this phase of life?
  • What kinds of tools or other supports can Allison recommend for new parents? 

Resources:


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Direct download: 445_-_Postpartum_Anxiety_and_ADHD_with_Allison_Lieberman.mp3
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Join ADHD reWired's award winning, online, video-based Coaching & Accountability Groups at https://coachingrewired.com.

Our fall season of ADHD reWired's Coaching & Accountability Groups - also known as ARC - begin on September 29th and 30th, through to December 8th and 9th of 2022. 

Go to https://coachingrewired.com to get your name added to our coaching group interest list and join the coaching community built for adults with ADHD by adults with ADHD! You can do hard things, and you don't have to do them alone! 

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In this episode, Rick Webster returns to the show! Rick has expertise in real-estate, entrepreneurship, and ADHD!  He has managed many domains in the financial and real-estate world, and in the last couple of years, he’s put his focus in helping people with ADHD make better peace and better “cents” of their finances. 

As CEO of Rena-Fi, Rick brings perspective, vision, and passion to an area of life he considers foundational: Personal Money Management.  His motto has always been, “It’s not just business; it’s personal.”


Eric and Rick share stories about paying the ADHD tax and its larger umbrella, the effects of chronic long-term stress, ways to change self-talk and self-identity to get things done, challenges we may encounter when developing financial habits, the shame we can feel when working on our finances, and forgiving ourselves. 

Then, Eric and Rick talk about behavioral finance, why money management isn’t just about willpower, the impact of looking upstream, creating reminders and cues, and saying “no” to improve performance. 

Finally, you’ll hear Eric and Rick talk about maintenance costs, other costs of homeownership, planning for upcoming maintenance, and the three primary reasons why the ADHD tax continues to happen.

Learn More about Rick Webster at https://rena-fi.com 


Other ADHD-tax stories shared on this episode:

  • “I have paid the ADHD tax so many times. I’d love some recommendations on extremely simple/easy budgeting tools.  A lot of budgeting books have too many steps.” 
  • “I always do my taxes at the last possible minute and don’t know if I do them right, and I always owe a lot.” 
  • “Didn’t pay a speeding ticket, license was suspended.  Pulled over again - arrested driving with a suspended license.  Then, I paid much more than the original speeding ticket for a lawyer, speeding tickets, and additional charges for reinstating my license. 
  • “I pay the ADHD tax every day.  Paying late-fees, re-buying things I can’t find, spending impulsively, paying for things I’m not using because I didn’t cancel them or forgot to return them in time, expedited shipping because I didn’t order something on-time, ordering take-out because I wasn’t organized enough to have dinner ready, etc.  How can I be triggered to think things through at an early enough time that I can follow through in a way that lets me avoid the ADHD tax?” 
  • “I’ve paid the ADHD tax on rush-orders. I’ve paid more on expensive repairs to my vehicles/yard equipment/house appliances, instead of the regular preventative maintenance that would’ve prevented the damage in the first place.  I have paid out-of-pocket costs for my meds because my insurance lapsed or I never sent in the reimbursement forms for what would be covered if I do the extra steps.  How do I know what the preventative maintenance tasks are on my big or expensive things (often appliances)? I feel like I “should” do many of them myself.  Would I be paying an ADHD tax by paying people to come do some of these easier tasks for my appliances because they at least know and will at least call me when they are due?”

Hear Rick Webster on Hacking Your ADHD

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Direct download: 444_-_ADHD_Tax_Stories_Strategies_with_Rick_Webster.mp3
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In this episode, Eric is joined by Stephanie Antoine, a self-care and ADHD coach based in California and hails from London with roots in the Caribbean.  She spent many years studying meditation and yoga to reduce stress, chronic pain, and to keep things together before finally being diagnosed with ADHD at age 40. 

In addition to her professional work as a violinist, Stephanie is a qualified teacher of MBSR (Mindfulness-based Stress Reduction) from UMASS, practiced and trained to teach yoga at the Iyengar Institute of San Francisco and is an ACSM (American College of Sports Medicine) Personal Trainer with an ICF (International Coaching Federation) Coaching Certificate. 


You’ll hear Stephanie’s experience with burnout, being a mom, overwhelm, and overdoing without enough support.  Stephanie also talks about the ways her ADHD showed up in her life and the moments that led her to the path to discovering her ADHD and incorporating meditation in her life.  Then, Eric and Stephanie talk about the difficulties and engaging in practicing, and her experience of being a person of color in a very white space. 

Next, you’ll hear about Stephanie’s experience in straining to relax, why relaxing is necessary, why she was sent to a relaxation class, and the power of pausing.

Then, Stephanie and Eric discuss the pressures we face that make it difficult for us to relax, ways to build the muscle of observation, ways that Stephanie overcomes resistance to starting a difficult task, and the importance of curiosity when facing unpleasant or difficult moments and moments of boredom. 

Finally, you’ll hear about the difference between seeing and looking, Trataka meditation, why taking care of oneself is important and why self-care is not selfish. 

Visit Stephanie’s Website at https://www.stephanieantoine.com/


“We practice ‘practice’, we don’t practice results.”
- Phillip Moffitt 


Other Questions & Topics in this Episode: 

  • How did Stephanie experience burnout? 
  • What was it like for Stephanie being the only black person in primarily white spaces? 
  • Why is it so hard to relax? 

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Direct download: 443_-_Why_is_it_so_Hard_to_Relax_with_Stephanie_Antoine.mp3
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In this episode, Mary Kima Dolson, a clinical social worker, joins the podcast!  As a clinical social worker, Mary has been providing psychotherapy in incarcerated populations since 2019. She is the founder of the pandemic support group Stuff We Can’t Say Out Loud and the executive director for Fund That Bitch, a non-profit group dedicated to helping women with emergency funding.  Mary also 

You’ll hear Eric and Mary talk about trauma in incarcerated populations, if the word “trauma” is overused, trigger warnings, and the misunderstandings about trauma and its multifaceted layers. 

Then, Mary and Eric talk about different types of trauma, unique trauma responses, the ways that people in the ADHD community can experience trauma, and how trauma responses can show up as ADHD traits. 

Eric and Mary also talk about other trauma features, if there is a connection between trauma and workaholism, the importance of investing in and validating someone’s experience, and the healing and adjusting process of the incarcerated population. 

Finally, you’ll hear about Mary’s experiences with trauma, how she got into her work, and a story about Henry the tortoise. 

Get More from Mary: 

Other Questions & Topics in this Episode: 

  • What is trauma? 
  • What is the difference between trauma and acute stress disorder? 
  • PTSD and CPTSD - what’s the difference? 
  • What is the “trifuckta” of trauma? 
  • What do we do about complex trauma? 
  • What are some of the less obvious markers, behaviorally and emotionally, of trauma? 

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Direct download: 442_-_Trauma_and_ADHD_with_Mary_Dolson.mp3
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Join the ADHD reWired Team every second Tuesday of the month for our monthly Live Q&A!  

In this episode, you’ll hear from the ADHD reWired podcast team and ADHD reWired coaches talk about coaching, how to set yourself up for success when engaging with a coaching program, and what can help people grow.  

Then, you’ll hear the panelists talk about why making friends feels difficult as adults, ways to make connections in different areas, the false narratives we tell ourselves about planning, the importance of scheduling fun things in your calendar, and that it’s ok to not get everything done.  

You’ll also hear the panel share tips on building motivation, the barriers to getting started, and how activating a task can help with motivation. The panelists also discuss the benefit of reframing, defining our principles when creating rules for ourselves, and why understanding our values can help us make better decisions. 

Finally, you’ll hear some tips on creating a more conducive remote work environment, the importance of communicating with your household when working from home, why a lack of structure can cause us to struggle, and that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to coaching. 


Some of the Questions & Topics in this Episode:

  • What makes one coaching program different from another?  What does it take for coaching to succeed, and how does one have to approach it to ensure or increase chances of success?  What scenario would make coaching not successful? 
  • How does coaching interact with traditional therapy? 
  • Are there grants available to cover potential business expenses when building a business channel?  There doesn’t seem to be any grants listed specifically for ADHD. 
  • Do you have any tips or advice on finding more adult acquaintances after graduating university? 
  • I know scheduling helps, but when I make a daily plan, I feel the structure is too restrictive, and I rarely stick to it.  Any tips? 
  • What can I do to have motivation? 
  • How do I give myself consequences for not following through on the things that I want to do? 
  • How do I create a conducive remote work environment? I live in a small home and need space from my family. 
  • I have recently retired from a CEO position and am now having trouble navigating the day-to-day.  I assume that’s not uncommon? 
  • I was recently diagnosed and I have been struggling with deadlines and multitasking my whole life.  Can you talk about how coaching works and what benefits people get from it?  I’m figuring out how my brain works. 

Resources & Honorable Mentions:

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Direct download: 441_-_July_2022_Live_QA.mp3
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In this episode, Eric is joined by Kimberly McColl, a recovering academic living in Nashville, which is where she was diagnosed with ADHD in February 2021.  Kimberly was also diagnosed with bipolar II in 2008.  Her recent diagnosis has caused her to rethink the narrative she has told herself her entire life.  Currently, she is learning more about ADHD and trying to give herself more grace and forgiveness. 

You’ll hear Eric and Kimberly talk about her journey as a recovering academic, some of the key differences between bipolar I and II, the ways she experiences her ups and downs, and shares her insights about hyperfocus.

Then, Kimberly shares the ways she distinguishes her experiences with dopamine-seeking with ADHD and bipolar, racing thoughts and mania, what shows up externally for her, and the positive impact community has had in her life.  

Finally, she shares what a person could do if they are considering support or getting diagnosed with bipolar, how stories and narratives may be connected to memory, and the importance of being kind to yourself. 


Other Questions & Topics in this Episode: 

  • How did Kimberly get through school without being diagnosed? 
  • What was the experience of getting diagnosed with bipolar II? 
  • What are some of the most frustrating myths about bipolar disorder for Kimberly? 
  • What is an experience that people without bipolar disorder may not understand? 
  • How could a person capture the lost experiences of a period of time? 
  • What is the first step to take if I am considering seeking support about bipolar? 

Resources & Honorable Mentions:


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The Executive Function Online Summit is happening on August 5-7!  Join 75,000+ families and teachers worldwide with one of the best ways to prep for Back 2 School! 

Access is free from August 5-7 - check it out here! Or go to http://adhdrewired.com/tefos2022 to get registered! 

 

Direct download: 440_-_BiPolar_and_ADHD_-_-_A_Personal_Narrative_with_Kimberly_McColl.mp3
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In this episode, Eric is joined by Adam Coutts.  Adam has taught meditation for 20 years through his weekly sitting groups, 25-hour classes, corporate webinars, and one-on-one coaching.  He has been meditating daily for 30 years and has lived in monasteries in America and Asia.  Adam has also been exploring his own ADHD for the past 10 years and has been leading a mindfulness meditation for ADHD course for the last 4 years.

You’ll hear Adam and Eric talk about the importance of sleep, exercise, and meditation.  You’ll also hear Adam’s practical meditation techniques to begin a meditation practice, the importance of gentleness and forgiveness when beginning a meditation practice, and how meditation has helped calm his wandering mind.

Then, Adam shares his favorite mantras and how using a mantra can be its own form of meditation.

Connect with Adam at https://intromeditation.com 


Also Answered in this episode:

  • What was the spark that had Adam start his meditation journey? 
  • Can a person with ADHD really meditate? 
  • What are some practical techniques to begin a meditation practice? 
  • How can I begin using a mantra or affirmation to meditate? 

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Direct download: 439_-_How_to_Meditate_with_ADHD_-_with_Adam_Coutts.mp3
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In this episode, Eric is joined by David DeWitt, a registered investment advisor and podcaster who helps adults with ADHD take back control of their money! He’s been a registered investment advisor for six years, but it wasn’t until his ADHD “awakening” early in 2021 that he realized he wanted to work with others with ADHD. 

David knows from experience that effective personal finance when you have ADHD is hard, even when you are a trained professional!  After discovering his ADHD, he set out to build a financial planning model that works for ADHD brains - first testing it on himself, and now, he is on a mission to help as many ADHDers as he can! 

 

Eric and David address the shame we can feel around our finances, why people reach out to David about their finances, and where to begin when planning for the future.  Then, Eric and David discuss using our values to help guide our financial planning, how to get past the mental clutter when facing our finances, and ways to stay consistent with financial management.  

You’ll also hear some strategies for tackling debt against spending, why “budget” is a “dirty’ word, the importance of filing your taxes on time,  and a glimpse into investing. 

Get in Touch with David:

Also Answered in this episode:

  • How does David view financial planning in a way that is ADHD friendly? 
  • What is the importance of finding our values behind our finances? 
  • How does David help people get out of debt? 
  • What does it mean to put your money where your values are? 
  • How do you start saving when you’re in debt? 
  • Where do you begin when you want to address your money situation? 
  • What is the difference between a traditional IRA and a Roth IRA?
  • How do you start investing? 
  • How do we stay on top of our financial matters? 

Check out the Other Podcasts on the ADHD reWired Podcast Network:

Direct download: 438_-_ADHD_Money_Talk_with_David_Dewitt.mp3
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Join the ADHD reWired Team every second Tuesday of the month for our monthly Live Q&A!  

In this episode, you’ll hear how the members on the ADHD reWired team manage and engage with social media.  You’ll also hear about some tools and systems to create a library of responses, and help a listener hone in on what they are passionate about. 

Then, the ADHD reWired team shares tips on pausing before reacting, what the empathy gap is, what happens between pausing and stimulus, and the value of mindfulness meditation. 


Some of the Questions & Topics in this Episode:

  • How do you manage social media and stay engaged? 
  • I’m trying to develop a library of scripts for responding to common things because I struggle with articulating myself, leading to procrastination.  What tools can I use to create scripts?
  • What advice would you give somebody who’s trying to figure out what to do with their life? 
  • “Between stimulus and response, there is a space.”  Is that really true for persons with ADHD? The emotional reaction happens so fast and full, and then it seems there is no recovery. How do we create a space that might not be there? 
  • How do you get over the Wall of Awful about the Wall of Awful? 
  • I have spent so much time on productivity apps.  I heard one of you uses Notion, do you have any suggestions on how you use it? 

Resources & Honorable Mentions:

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Direct download: 437_-_June_Live_QA_2022.mp3
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In today’s episode, Eric is joined by Jonathan Hassall and Madeline O’Reilly.

Jonathan is an ADHD and executive function coach and director of Connect ADHD Coaching, providing services internationally from Brisbane, Australia.  His background includes psychiatric services and is a scientific advisor for ADHD in the pharmaceutical industry.  

Jonathan trained as an ADHD coach in the U.S. and offers individual and group programs for people with ADHD.  He’s a regular speaker at national ADHD meetings, in Australia, and in the U.S.  He is a board member of ADDA and a published author.  You’ll hear about his new book called Decoding Doing, co-written with the 2nd guest on today’s episode, Madeline O’Reilly. 

Madeline works with children and adults with ADHD and anxiety.  She spent the last decade working in a multi-disciplinary practice in Sydney, Australia called Mindcare Center, where her interest in ADHD was sparked.  Madeline also enjoys working in collaboration with other medical professionals, especially psychiatrists.  Prior to this, she spent three years working in East London for a cognitive behavioral therapy service that specializes in treating trauma in adults.  

Before moving to the UK, Madeline worked for Vision Australia which allowed her to develop skills with children, adolescents, and adults in assessment and treatment of behavioral problems and mental health difficulties in the vision-impaired population.  


You’ll hear about how Jonathan and Madeline worked together to write their book, Decoding Doing, what Decoding Doing is all about and what they wanted to share with others, and their experiences with accepting success.  You’ll also hear about the process of achieving, imagining and visualizing, and organizing the things we think through. 

They also address procrastination and motivation, recognizing emotions, attention, and our emotional responses to different situations.  They also talk about the importance of cues versus waiting for feeling like we “want” to do a task, and using the reality of our futures-selves for motivation, finding a compelling “why” to create motivation.

Connect with Jonathan and Madeline:


Also Answered in this episode:

  • What is their 5-stage model to decode doing? 
  • Why “imagine” vs. “plan”? 
  • How do we better organize the things we imagine? 
  • What does it mean to connect?
  • What is the importance of our emotional state? 
  • How do we visualize and imagine? What if we find it difficult to visualize? 
  • How do we engage when we aren’t feeling motivated? 
  • How do we generate motivation?
  • How do we overcome the difficulty of overcoming our accomplishments? 

Resources & Honorable Mentions:


Check out the Other Podcasts on the ADHD reWired Podcast Network:

Direct download: 436_-_Decoding_Doing_with_Jonathan_Hassall_and_Madeline_OReilly.mp3
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In today’s episode, Eric is joined by Laura Roehrick.  Currently at age 69, Laura was diagnosed with ADHD at 40, has been a registered nurse for 48 years, and has found her brain wiring to be both a blessing and a curse.  

Laura is also a pioneer of preventative diabetic foot care nursing, having created a method of nail sculpture that can be both limb-saving and life-saving. She has been married for 37 years, has two daughters, is a grandma of 5, and is also a crafter, designer, artist, former actress, herbal medicine maker, avid knitter, loves sewing, has traveled the world, and has colorful stories of being raised on a houseboat! 

You’ll also hear about Laura’s lessons in business, the consequences of lacking clear and effective communication, what she has experienced as being a nurse herself, and the importance of diabetic foot care. 

Then, you’ll also hear how she landed a role in a movie from 1980 that is banned in the UK, what Laura would change if she could go back in time, and  ways she is optimizing her health.   


Get in touch with Laura: 


Also Answered in this episode:

  • What was Laura’s impetus for getting laser-focused on something like diabetic foot care? 
  • How did she pioneer in her field? 
  • How did Laura’s upbringing influence her out-of-the-box thinking?
  • If Laura could go back in time from when she began her work with diabetic foot care, what advice would she give herself so she wouldn’t get so derailed? 
  • How much has acceptance been a part of her journey?
  • What are Laura’s plans at age 69 and beyond? 

Resources & Honorable Mentions:


Check out the Other Podcasts on the ADHD reWired Podcast Network:

 

Direct download: 435_-_Sculpting_Your_Own_Path_w_Laura_Roehrick.mp3
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Registration for our summer coaching groups ends tomorrow. 

Pre-registration submissions due tonight at 11:59pm CT. 

Go to www.coachingrewired.com

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In this episode, Eric is joined by ADHD reWired Coaching Group Alumni, Gail Polivy. She was a coaching group member in spring of 2020 and became a peer mentor for the groups for the 2022 spring season.  Gail self-identifies as an “old-gay-guard” and was thrilled to join Eric on the podcast during Pride month.  

Gail shares her experiences when she came out in 1977, her difficulties in college and learning about lesbianism, and finding a community where she felt at home.  You’ll also here Eric and Gail discuss how she’s seen the evolution of the LGBTQ+ community throughout the years, how her ADHD affected past relationships, mirroring, the power of self-acceptance, and the positive changes she’s made in her life since joining ADHD reWired’s Coaching & Accountability Groups. 


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Direct download: 434_-_Belonging_in_ADHD_and_LGBTQ_Communities_with_Gail_Polivy.mp3
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Join the ADHD reWired Team every second Tuesday of the month for our monthly Live Q&A!  In this episode, you’ll hear how the members on the ADHD reWired team thrive with their ADHD, some tools and strategies on how they tackle their most unpleasant tasks, ADHD and gifted programs, and more! 


Some of the Questions & Topics in this Episode:

  • I’ve read a lot of books that talk about ADHD as a superpower.  For those who thrive and do well with ADHD, what are the key things that make the difference between somebody who thrives and somebody who struggles? 
  • My son has the option to go to honors classes next year.  His teacher says he has no problem understanding the content and he is smart enough to understand it (the content), but “couldn’t possibly handle honors classes” so they won’t put him in them.  This doesn’t sit well with me.  Are there any suggestions on what I might do? 
  • I need help getting unpleasant tasks done, like job searching.  How do we get these unpleasant tasks done? 
  • My daughter has recently developed a skin-picking habit specifically with her nails to the point where she’ll pick at them until they bleed.  What are some strategies to help her not do it as often, knowing I can’t be there with her all the time?
  • How do I get better at not biting off more than I can handle? 
  • When was the last time you hit inbox zero? 

 

Resources & Honorable Mentions:

  • Coming soon! 

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Direct download: 433_-_May_Live_QA.mp3
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In this episode, Eric is joined by Bex who is a non-binary all-around queer, chemist, and artist!  Bex was diagnosed with ADHD in April of 2021 at the age of 24 and has been on their journey of acceptance and expression of both their queer and ADHD identifies.

You’ll hear a great conversation between both Bex and Eric as they reflect on their own personal experiences as they explore  their identities together.  You’ll also hear about Bex’s personal experiences with the intersectionality of being queer, non-binary, and having ADHD, some of the comforts that can be taken with labels and identify, and a glimpse into some perceptions and speculations they've seen and experienced about bisexuality. 


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Direct download: 432_-_Queerness__ADHD_with_Bex.mp3
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In this episode, we’re meeting Jason Boughn, a life coach specializing in tools to address ADHD.  He also welcomes neurodiversity of all types and neurotypical people!  Jason has a comfortable way of evoking a person’s story, getting to the heart of the matter most relevant to the storyteller.  The stories we tell ourselves and the ones created to fit in better with others are affirmations which shape our reality.  Jason’s focus is exploring and reframing our personal story to create a beautiful life experience. 

In this episode, Jason shares his story about his brain injury and how it has impacted his life, and how the manifestations of ADHD are similar traumatic brain injuries (TBI).  You’ll also hear about how Jason experiences emotion, not fitting in, acting, and his passion for learning.

Then, you’ll also hear about his journey through relationships, his compassion throughout those relationships, how he overcame homelessness, and what led to that chapter in his life. 


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Direct download: 431_-_TBI_ADHD_Homelessness_and_Reinventing_Self.mp3
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In this episode, Eric is joined by Lorin Devine, who grew up in the cornfields of rural Illinois and has been driven to create, explore, and forge her own way.  In adulthood, she struggled to find footing in a world where she felt like she never quite fit. 

In 2014, Lorin entered the world of tattooing.  Then, after 4 years in a busy walk-in studio, she left Illinois to spend 18 months on the road as a guest in more than 25 tattoo studios throughout the U.S. and Europe.  Halting travel in 2020 led to an ADHD diagnosis, and a framework to understand years of straining to conform to a neurotypical world.  

Lorin is now based out in Portland, Oregon, where she is creating illustrative black and gray tattoos in a private studio.  Finding support in the ADHD community and the autonomy to curate her tattoo practice towards supporting a neurodivergent brain has empowered her to create the best possible work for her clients. 


In this episode, you’ll hear discussions about being categorized as a gifted child, the impact of creating a working environment that works for us, and the importance of community. 

Then, you’ll get to listen in on real-time coaching where you’ll hear about tips & tricks to go from time-blind to time-wise.

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Direct download: 430_-_So_You_Want_to_be_a_Professional_Creative_with_Lorin_Devine.mp3
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In this episode, Eric is joined by ADHD reWired Coaching Group Alumni member, Brian Entler!  Brian has been a peer mentor of ADHD reWired’s coaching program and has been working to redesign his life to be ADHD-compatible.  

Brian will be riding the AIDS Lifecycle 2022, a 545-mile ride from San Francisco to Los Angeles to raise money for LGBTQ health care.  An avid cyclist and firm believer in the power of exercise to be an ADHD management tool, Brian is going to share his experience in the coaching groups, his goal-setting, routine-building, and how cycling and exercise have played an essential part in his life.  

⭐️⭐️ Donate to help Brian reach his fundraising goal of $5,000 for the AIDS Lifecycle ride. Click the link to donate! → http://www.tofighthiv.org/goto/ladybear2022 ⭐️ ⭐️ 

“[AIDS/LifeCycle] is a really fine organization. It’s done to benefit the San Francisco AIDS foundation and the Los Angeles LGBT Center.  [Your donations] are not going to just marketing or executive salaries, this provides first-line health care for people who need it.” 

  • Brian Entler 

Some of the Questions & Topics in this Episode:

  • What prompted Brian to take the leap and join ADHD reWired’s Coaching & Accountability groups
  • What role can accountability play when setting goals when you have ADHD? 
  • What role does emotional motivation play to begin making changes in one’s life? 
  • Can the outdoors be beneficial for ADHD brains? 
  • Are bucket list goals really achievable? 
  • What is the importance of emotional vulnerability? How does it affect mindset? 
  • How has being a part of ADHD reWired’s Alumni coaching group been helpful for Brian? 

Resources & Honorable Mentions:


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Direct download: 429_-_Growth_Cycles_with_Brian_Entler.mp3
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Join the ADHD reWired Team every second Tuesday of the month for our monthly Live Q&A!  In this episode, you’ll hear about the importance of community, picking an entrepreneurial path, accountability, parenting, and dealing with shame. 

Listen all the way through to meet the newest addition to the ADHD reWired team - Coach Kristin Marts! 


Some Questions & Topics in this Episode:

  • I’m interested in going into business for myself. How do I narrow my focus to follow a path?
  • What are the best ways to deal with our tendencies within ourselves? 
  • How can I reduce overwhelm? 
  • What kind of research can I do to move forward in a new career? 
  • At what point is something a personality trait?
  • Our child was diagnosed with ADHD but we haven’t talked about it with them yet.  How do we have this conversation? 

 

Resources & Honorable Mentions:


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Direct download: 428_-_April_Live_QA_2022.mp3
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In this episode, Eric is joined by Jonathan Orenberg from the San Francisco Bay area.  As the founder of Care Life Services, Jonathan is no stranger to the healthcare field.  After graduating from Baldwin Wallace University: Conservatory of Music, he decided to follow in the footsteps of his father - an emergency room physician and medical director - and his mother, a registered nurse.  Jonathan went on to become a CNA and certified senior fitness specialist and is also an accomplished Bay-area bass performer who has been in the industry for over 25 years, proud member of Actors’ Equity since 2008, and owner of a private acting studio. 

Johnny has shared the stage with such stars as Sutton Foster, Kathleen Marshall, Michael Rafter, and Kate McGarry, while performing at some of the most prestigious theaters in the United States, including the Barnstormers Theatre, Cleveland Play House, Great Lakes Theater Company, 42nd Street Moon Theatre Company, and The Walt Disney Company. 

Johnny has learned how to harness his ADHD and dyslexia-superpowers into fuel for his entrepreneurial spirit and mindfulness in the toll that hyperfocus can take on family life in the battle of business goals and personal values.  Johnny is also an Alum of ADHD reWired's Coaching & Accountability Groups

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In this episode, Eric is joined by Patrick LaCount, the director of Practical Psychological Services in Fort Collins, Colorado, specializing in the assessment and treatment of ADHD.  He completed his doctorate in clinical psychology at the University of Wyoming, pre-residency at Duke University Medical Center and post-doctoral fellowship at Seattle's Children's Hospital.  In addition to providing psychological services, Dr. LaCount is passionate about disseminating the latest science to the ADHD community and is a research consultant for the How To ADHD YouTube Channel

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In this episode, Eric is joined by Catherine Lee, the director of Lethbridge Piper & Associates, an Australian occupational health and safety management consultancy.  For 30 years, Catherine has advised employers, CEOs, boards, executives, and leadership teams on strategic health and safety management.  She holds post-graduate degrees in occupational health and safety management and is a certified occupational health and safety professional.

Catherine created the Neurodiverse Safe Initiative for making work safe, healthy, and inclusive for neurodiverse workers. 

Get her ebook “ADHD Safe Work” for free here!


Other Topics & Questions in this Episode:

  • How did Catherine’s work in occupational health and safety lead to her own diagnosis? 
  • Under what circumstances may an employee with ADHD feel like they need to stop taking their medication?
  • What is the potential value of a person with ADHD, or any person who is neurodiverse, as an employee? 
  • How is Catherine getting the information she’s gathered into places of employment for leaders and management to understand what safety and acceptance really means in the workplace?
  • How can employers integrate neurodiverse persons in their companies? 
  • What’s the “selling point” for people/employers who are not empathetic towards different kinds of brains?

Resources & Honorable Mentions:


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Direct download: 425_-_The_Neurodiverse_Safe_Work_Initiative_with_Catherine_Lee.mp3
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Join the ADHD reWired Team every second Tuesday of the month for the monthly Live Q&A, and be sure to listen all the way through to hear a very special guest join us on this episode! 


Questions & Topics in this Episode:

  • How do I keep my time-blindness from derailing my teaching of a 90-minute class that has a very tightly-structured curriculum? 
  • What are some of the signs that a job is not the right fit and that it might be time to move on?
  • Do you have any input or tips on how to make strategies that are not working anymore - because of the pandemic - work again? 
  • What are some strategies or tools I can use for accountability? 
  • How can I keep doing the routines that keep my ADHD under control when I am traveling or in a different environment? 
  • My kids want me to play Roblox with them. Do you have a favorite game we can play together?
  • If you’re a kid with ADHD, what if the parent also has ADHD?
  • Any advice for a kid living with an ADHD parent? 
  • I am 41 and recently diagnosed and my spouse is neurotypical. What are some ways we can work on communication so that we don’t end up in unnecessary conflict? 
  • Any tips for improving memory, particularly recall, when being put on the spot? 

Resources & Honorable Mentions:


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Direct download: 424_-_March_Live_QA.mp3
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In this episode, Eric is joined by New York’s Alex Gilbert who is a Mets fan, yogi, and brunch enthusiast. Alex also has dyslexia and ADHD, being diagnosed at 8 years old.. After spending a career working in leadership development, she decided to start a consulting and coaching business that helps adults with learning disabilities and ADHD (just like her!) who have been struggling in their careers. Her business is called “Cape-Able Consulting”, creating it to help people navigate their day-to-day workloads so they feel supported so they can reach their highest potential! 

You’ll hear how Alex’s experiences in school led to her diagnoses, how she began advocating for herself and finding accommodations that worked for her, and the importance of knowing yourself and what you need before beginning to self-advocate. 

Then, you’ll hear differences between best practices and best principles, ways to ask for what you need, and why knowing about her ADHD at a young age wasn’t necessarily an advantage. You’ll even hear Eric use one of his own accommodations in real time! 

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Other Topics & Questions in this Episode:

  • How did Alex create a program for students to advocate for themselves?
  • How did the self-advocacy skills from school transfer to the workplace? 
  • Why is it important to know yourself and your needs before disclosing ADHD? 
  • Without disclosing their ADHD, are there any suggestions for an employee to test the water before fully disclosing? 
  • How can employers support their employees who are neurodivergent? How can employers draw out their strengths?
  • What does the boss do when they are the ones with ADHD?
  • What was the most valuable accommodation Eric utilized in college?
  • If Alex had a magic wand to turn all workplaces into ADHD-friendly workplaces, what would change?

Resources & Honorable Mentions:


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Direct download: 423_-_Is_Work_a_Struggle_with_Alex_Gilbert.mp3
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In this episode, Eric is joined by Ryan Mayer who you might have seen on TikTok! Ryan is a performance and mindset coach on a mission to help others navigate through the storms caused by ADHD. He calls on first-hand experience to help his clients who, like him, are falling short at work and at home. He helps others to believe in themselves again through empathy, enthusiasm, and education. Ryan’s coaching empowers others to live a happier life. You’ll hear Ryan share his experience in corporate-America, his journey to becoming an ADHD coach, and the importance of finding a path that suits your strengths and personality. You will also learn the ways that Ryan and Eric use accountability, how crucial accountability is to getting things done, and how Ryan draws from his personal life to create his content on TikTok. 

Other Topics & Questions in this Episode:

  • How do you not get stuck on TikTok? 
  • What are the nuances of accountability that makes it work? 
  • Is it a good idea for your spouse to be your accountability partner?
  • What does Ryan mean by “Walking the razor's edge”?

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Resources & Honorable Mentions:

Direct download: 422_-_Tik_Toks_Coach_Ryan_Mayer.mp3
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Eric is joined by Aran Rees, joining the show from across the pond! Aran has worked in professional development for close to a decade, specializing in self-directed peer-supported experiential learning and believes that learning is a survival skill! You'll hear about the ways that the "why" behind the "what" we want to learn can affect the ways we learn, how our environments affect how we learn, and what is needed for genuine learning. 

Topics & Questions in this Episode:

  • How is work changing? How does the move from office-work to at-home work change the way we work? 
  • (As of this recording), what is the average job tenure?
  • Is the shift to learning online geared more towards compliance versus actual learning?
  • Eric to Aran: “Whether we are trying to learn a new skill ourselves or a new job, from what you do professionally, what do we know about what is actually needed for genuine learning rather than regurgitation?” 
  • What does learning begin with? 
  • How does the interest in what we’re learning affect the ways we learn? 
  • Are the goals you are pursuing actually important to you, or is this something someone else is encouraging you to do? Is it only important to you because that person is important to you? Then, is that enough of an ‘interest’ to keep you engaged?
  • Once you’ve made a commitment and you care about something and you’ve carved out the time - what else is essential for learning a new skill or new ability? 
  • What is Aran’s deep ‘why’ behind wanting more structure in his routines? 
  • How can your environment affect learning? How can our environments affect our routines?
  • What is the importance of environmental cues? 

Resources & Honorable Mentions:

Direct download: 421_-_How_We_Learn__Coaching_for_Stuctured_Routines_with_Aran_Rees.mp3
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In this episode, Eric is joined by Sherri, a CEO/executive coach and facilitator who was diagnosed with ADHD at the age of 40.

Her mission: Equip ADHD leaders to confidently lead by example making every workplace friendlier for all brains. She has led leadership teams, developed programs for diverse organizations around the world. Before turning entrepreneur, Sherri worked at Procter & Gamble where she climbed from a soap sales-rep (yes, bars of soap!) to Southern California district sales manager.

Hear Eric and Sherri talk about self-acceptance, imposter syndrome, and her journey into leadership training. You’ll hear about the executive-functioning drain of meetings, Sherri’s suggestions on running better “meetings”, and the importance of fun and communication. It’s about identifying the needs and challenges are, then coming up with processes to fall to in order to do the things you’re wanting to do. 

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Topics & Questions in this Episode:

  • How did Sherri go from selling soap to coaching leaders?
  • What is the importance of self-awareness? 
  • How did Sherri’s ADHD diagnosis affect her work work? 
  • After the tech-boom, what drew Sherri back into coaching executives? 
  • What does it look like to be dialed in with self-awareness?
  • When working with leaders with ADHD, what are some of the common challenges that leaders go to Sherri with? Which struggles are most common? 
  • How do we make sure that, when our teams are together, that everybody’s going with, “Yes! That’s what we agreed on!”?
  • How can a leader be constantly increasing self-awareness?
  • What is the importance of feedback?
  • Can there really be 5-minute meetings or conversations? 
  • What is the importance of experimentation in leadership?  

Resources & Honorable Mentions:

Direct download: 420_-_Leading_with_ADHD_with_Sherri_Cannon.mp3
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Join the ADHD reWired Podcast Family & more of the ADHD reWired Team every second Tuesday of the month for the monthly Live Q&A! In this Q&A episode, you’ll hear Eric, Brendan, Will, MJ, Moira, and Kat answer your ADHD-related questions! 

Questions & Topics in this Episode:
(The following questions have been paraphrased.) 

  • What are some ADHD-friendly organizing resources when preparing to relocate? 
  • Emotions can be really big and dysregulated with ADHD. Do you have advice on dealing with surprise disappointments that come up? 
  • My dad loses his temper a lot and it’s very difficult to talk to him. If I didn’t know better, I would have felt that some of the things he does could be borderline abusive. I don’t blame him because a lot of this is involuntary because of the ADHD, but if this continues, it’s not good for the family as a whole. I’m not sure how to deal with this. 
  • How can I improve my sleep hygiene with shift-work?
  • I am currently caring for my mom who has early dementia. I’ll be trying to work on my tasks, but I keep getting off track. How do I manage interruptions? 
  • How do you decide if “This is an ADHD thing” and “it should not be this much of a struggle so I should find a work-around” versus, “This is hard, but everybody struggles to do it, so I will struggle to do it!”? 
  • What suggestions do you have for finding an ADHD-friendly workplace? 

Resources & Honorable Mentions:


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Direct download: 419_-_February_Live_QA.mp3
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In this episode, Eric is joined by Alumni member Laura Kane. Laura is a transplant from Boston living with her rescue dog in Delray Beach, Florida. Just prior to the pandemic, Laura discovered a love of nature photography and is incredibly grateful for this gift. Most days, she can be found taking pictures of birds, alligators, and other assorted wildlife. Her top bucket-list item is to go on a safari. Creating structure and sticking with it is a constant struggle for her, but she refuses to give up! 

Listen in as Eric and Laura work together to build her daily structure, the why behind the desire to create the structure, and how uncomfortable it can be to accept praise when sharing our joy. You’ll also hear about the significance and impact of accountability, how Laura’s passion gives her purpose, the anxiety of implementation and commitment, and understanding how the all-or-nothing mindset can actually get in the way. 

Laura’s Instagram: @joyfulphotographybylbk


  • Where does the narrative of comparing oneself to others, not feeling good enough, stems from?
  • How can you cue the “why” behind the routine? 
  • How easy is it to create back-up plans ahead of time versus in-the-moment?
  • How is exercise helpful?
  • What about online exercise classes?
  • What barriers can get in the way of building habits/derailing our habits?
  • How do you strengthen accountability? 
  • What’s the story behind “having” to ask for help? 
  • What’s the story behind believing we have to do things by ourselves? 
  • How do we get our goals met?
  • How do we structure our day when we’re the only ones depending on the structure? 
  • How has the pandemic affected building habits and routines?

Resources & Honorable Mentions:


In this episode, Brittany Smith returns to the podcast! Eric and Brittany share some of the digital automation tools they use, such as battery delivery for Tile, automated messages, using smart-lights, setting reminders and routines, and more! You will also hear Eric and Brittany talk about some of the pain-points they attempted to solve using apps and automation. About Brittany:

Brittany is a productivity, ADHD, and technology coach and recently published her first course, “From Aggravated to Navigated: Choosing a task-management system with ADHD”. She has a Masters of Science degree in Cognitive Neuroscience lab at the University of Oregon. Brittany uses geeky pop-culture and cognitive science to help her clients and ADHD Guild members get more done with less stress. 


Connect with Brittany:


Questions Answered In this Episode:

  • How does Brittany use automation? 
  • What is the importance of ‘stability’ when using apps for automation? 
  • What can you do with smart-bulbs?
  • Can automation help routines? 
  • If someone has been thinking about getting into automation but they haven’t purchased anything yet to start (smart switches, smart devices, smart bulbs, etc.), is it a good idea to stick with one platform? Why?
  • What is Tile? What does the premium version of Tile do? 
  • What is the Shortcuts app? (for iOS users only) What are some good uses for an ADHD life? 
  • What is possible with automation? 
  • Can finances be automated? 

Before jumping into automation tools, here are some questions to consider before you start:

  • How can I scaffold my executive functions through automation?
  • What exactly do you want from automation? 
  • Where is your pain point where automation can help?
  • What are the fiddly things that you would like to have happen for you?
  • What’s really going to make a dramatic difference in your life? 

Honorable Mentions & Resources:


For our listeners who are PC and Android™ users – What tools do you use, if any, to automate your executive functions in your daily life? Share it with us on our website at ADHD reWired! 

Direct download: 417_-_Automation_Tools_w_Brittany_Smith.mp3
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In this episode, Eric is joined by Lorri Hollingsworth who was officially diagnosed with combined-type ADHD about two-and-a-half years ago at the age of 64, having reached retirement without suspecting any neurodivergencies.  Yet, she always felt herself to be the “misfit” given the expectations set by friends, family, coworkers, and society at large, and forever assumed the role of “Inadvertent Perpetrator” with all the guilt inherent therein.  Lorri will share her journey shaped by the absence of an ADHD diagnosis in early childhood, which inevitably led to numerous comorbidities over the decades, as well as the never-expected hope that she now experiences for her future.  You’ll hear about the different comorbidities that were discovered before Lorri’s ADHD diagnosis, how her husband of over 35 years aided in Lorri getting diagnosed, her journey of the ways her diagnosis changed the way she viewed her past, and the dynamics of her environment growing up undiagnosed.  You’ll also hear about Lorri’s thrill of a challenge, and her journey through unhealthy eating behaviors, OCD, depression, anxiety, and more.  Lastly, you’ll hear about the importance of learning, self-awareness, and forgiveness to move forward.

Questions Answered & Memorable Moments in this Episode:

  • Lorri goes in depth about how important it is to get more stories of seniors getting diagnosed. 
  • What was it that led Lorri to get the diagnosis?
  • “I think the persistent leaving of cabinets and drawers open should be part of the diagnostic criteria!” - Eric
  • “...unless somebody does something drastic to get your attention, they don’t have your attention.” - Lorri
  • Mentioned here: https://drgabormate.com/book/scattered-minds/
  • How we show up in relationships:  Is that a product of our environment, or does ADHD sometimes get in the way?
  • “I, .as far back as I can remember, have been a ‘loner’.” - Lorri
  • At 64, you’ve been through a lot of stuff, so why does it matter now (to get diagnosed)?
  • “If you love your life, it’s worth the work.” - Lorri
  • “You have to forgive yourself, and you have to forgive the people that might have contributed inadvertently to you being in that place. Forgiveness is so important.” - Lorri

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Direct download: 416_-_When_Im_64_with_Lorri_Hollingsworth.mp3
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Join the ADHD reWired Podcast Family every second Tuesday of the month for a Live Q&A! In this Q&A episode, you’ll hear Eric, Barb, Brendan, Will, MJ, Moira, and Roxie answer your ADHD-related questions!


Check out the Other Podcasts on the ADHD reWired Podcast Network:

Don't Forget These, Too:

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Direct download: 415_-_Jan._Live_QA_Full_EP.mp3
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In this episode, Eric is joined by Danielle, a fresh graduate as of spring 2021. She has a Masters in Mechanical Engineering and was very recently diagnosed with ADHD. She has learned a lot about herself after receiving her diagnosis, especially after listening to ADHD reWired’s podcast. She felt some imposter syndrome after receiving her diagnosis, but has fully embraced it after learning about the symptoms and how it presents for her.

In this coaching conversation, you’ll hear about Danielle’s biggest struggle with feelings of rejection while being a high-achiever, the thoughts that went through her head through the feelings of failure, and shares some of the ways she calms her mind in the midst of racing thoughts. Eric and Danielle also touch on topics of emotional regulation, uncertainty, feeling out of control, and you might even relate to some of the inner dialogue she shares throughout today’s show!

Then, hear Eric and Danielle come up with a few ideas that might potentially help with some of the feelings of rejection, distorted thought patterns, and ways to pause when the mind begins to spiral. 


In this Episode, you’ll hear Danielle answer some of these questions:

  • How did you make it through your Masters degree without knowing you had ADHD?
  • Being diagnosed with ADHD: Was it a surprise or a relief?
  • What were some of your common struggles going through higher education?
  • Was some of the rejection you felt  possibly driven by perfectionism? 
  • With your new ADHD diagnosis, have old stories started to change, or do they still have a bit of emotional sting to them? 
  • What’s the internal dialogue that’s guiding what you say and do? 
  • Do you internalize or experience any types of feedback that leans even a little bit on the negative side?
  • Is there something you might be able to do that you think you might enjoy that you would definitely “not be good” at? 
  • What if you did something you felt wasn’t your best work? 
  • If there were some patterned thoughts around the things that tend to send you in that spiral, if those patterned thoughts were like headlines, what would those headlines be? 
  • Is there anyone you know, whether work or personally, who can give you regular feedback about something where you could also - at the same time - communicate how you’re rating yourself while you’re getting the feedback? 
  • Is there anything else you think would help you in either handling uncertainty in certain situations, or being able to receive feedback that might be difficult to hear while being regulated? 

Returning to the podcast is Kat Hoyer, a recovering HR Specialist who hosts our Career Accelerator Sessions (or CAASH+) in ADHD reWired’s Adult Study Hall Community. Get to know Kat even more in this episode, amd invite you to join us in welcoming Kat Hoyer as ADHD reWired’s newest coach to the coaching team! You’ll hear even more about Kat’s story about how she pivoted from her dream job in human resources to becoming a life and career coach, then the steps leading up to her officially joining the ADHD reWired Coaching Team. 
In this Episode:
  • So, who is Kat Hoyer?
  • How did Kat make the transition from HR to Career Coaching to Life-Coaching? 
  • Is Kat still involved with the HR Community?
  • Is the perception of ADHD and Neurodiversity really shifting in the workplace?
  • What compelled Kat to make the change to join the ADHD reWired Coaching Team?
  • What is Kat most excited about when the spring-season of coaching groups arrives? 
  • What values does Kat bring to coaching?
  • What does Kat feel will be her greatest opportunities for growth? 

This year, I have a word - it is “enough”. I am really working on understanding that sometimes, it’s okay to be where you are and not be pushing myself… and sometimes “enough” is where I need to live.

  • Kat Hoyer
Direct download: 413_-_From_HR_to_ADHD_reWired_Coach_with_Kat_Hoyer.mp3
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If you enjoyed this episode, and want more from Alejandro, check out his website: alejandrosantiago.com/ Alejandro is a mindfulness life coach and yoga instructor who first experienced the benefits of mindfulness and breathwork when he was a student at Parsons School of Design in New York City. To cope with the stress of ADHD and university, he cultivated a practice of Pranayama, an ancient form of yogic breathwork.

Today, he's teaching people how to get out of their heads and into the breath by merging the Western practices of mindfulness based in self-compassion, and yogic Pranayama meditations. He studied compassionate inquiry with Dr. Gabor Maté, a therapeutic approach to uncover and heal trauma in our bodies. When he's not teaching and coaching, he works as a portrait photographer in Toronto, Canada.

Direct download: 412_-_A_Guided_Meditation_with_Alejandro_Santiago.mp3
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More Shownotes coming soon!

In the meantime, get to know today's guest a little more by going to his website at alejandrosantiago.com/

In this episode, Eric is joined by ADHD reWired Coaching Group Alumni, Alejandro Santiago. 

Alejandro is a mindfulness life coach and yoga instructor who first experienced the benefits of mindfulness and breathwork when he was a student at Parsons School of Design in New York City. To cope with the stress of ADHD and university, he cultivated a practice of Pranayama, an ancient form of yogic breathwork.

Today, he's teaching people how to get out of their heads and into the breath by merging the Western practices of mindfulness based in self-compassion, and yogic Pranayama meditations. He studied compassionate inquiry with Dr. Gabor Maté, a therapeutic approach to uncover and heal trauma in our bodies. When he's not teaching and coaching, he works as a portrait photographer in Toronto, Canada.

Direct download: 411_-_Meditation__Breathwork_with_Alejandro_Santiago.mp3
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Join the ADHD reWired Podcast Family every second Tuesday of the month for a Live Q&A! In this Q&A episode, you’ll hear Eric, Barb, Brendan, Will, MJ, Moira, and Roxie answer your ADHD-related questions! 

The questions you’ll here answered in this episode:

(The following questions asked in the episode have been paraphrased below.) 

  • I can’t be medicated, even for ADHD. I will have exciting things I’m involved in, then I have an episode that makes me feel rejected and I fall into a rumination dive and it takes me a while to get back up. I’m trying to find a way to catch myself sooner, get out of it sooner, so I can continue on the path towards my goal and keep my momentum going.
  • I have started on meds and am having trouble unwinding and slowing my brain down at the end of the day. I wanted to know what your tips are for some of that.
  • How do Time-Timers work? 
  • Bonus: Panelists also share some of the other time-tracking tools they use! 
  • I’m looking for tips on how to help my partner understand what ADHD is and what it isn’t. My partner is neurotypical. My partner seems to not believe ADHD is a real thing, or that it’s a crutch to misplace things. How can I get him to understand? 
  • I was just diagnosed about two months ago. I’m navigating this new identity and trying to find my community. I’m trying to figure out how to navigate who to tell and how to know who to tell. I’ve had some conversations go surprisingly well and others not go so well. How do you handle being true to yourself while also protecting yourself? 
  • Are there any personal assistants that understand ADHD and could help keep me accountable? 

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Direct download: 410_-_December_Live_QA.mp3
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Have you tried using all sorts of to-do and task-management apps but haven’t found ‘the one’ yet? In this episode, Eric is joined by Brittany Smith, a productivity, ADHD, and technology coach and recently published her first course, “From Aggravated to Navigated: Choosing a task-management system with ADHD”. She has a Masters of Science degree in Cognitive Neuroscience lab at the University of Oregon. Brittany uses geeky pop-culture and cognitive science to help her clients and ADHD Guild members get more done with less stress. 
Connect with Brittany:

In this Episode:

  • How do you do things so that you will be successful no matter which tool you choose? 
  • With task-management apps, how do we make these things suck less? How do we choose what task-management app to use? 
  • How do we make task-management apps a “less bad” fit for our brains so we make sure we know what we need to do?
  • Mentioned: Task Management Software Built For Pros - OmniFocus - The Omni Group (Mac/iOS only) 
  • What’s your personal style? 
  • What should we be looking at if we are stuck in task-management-app “hopping”? 
  • What is a great app for automating?
  • Mentioned: Todoist 
  • Mentioned: Google Keep 
  • Mentioned: TaskPaper (Mac/iOS only)
  • Mentioned: Drafts (Mac/iOS only) 
  • Mentioned: Notion 
  • Mentioned: Trello 
  • Mentioned: Miro
  • Mentioned: MindNode

Honorable Mentions:

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Direct download: 409_-_How_to_Choose_Your_Productivity_Apps_with_Britanny_Smith.mp3
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